The aim of this guide is to ensure that first time givers and receivers of enema experience the greatest pleasure. In order to do this however, there are some guidelines that should be followed and these are listed below.
For the Receiver of the Enema:
The first and most important guideline is to find a comfortable position in which you can relax and enjoy the erotic experience of your enema. This will also involve giving your partner good access to your ass. The next thing to do is to ensure that your ass is well lubricated and for maximum enjoyment you can have your partner to this for you. A well lubricated ass is essential when it comes to inserting the enema nozzle. You will need to relax as the nozzle is being inserted and a couple of deep breaths will help.
As your partner turns on the flow of the enema, picture yourself receiving the enema, imagine the pleasure you are about to experience and most of all relax. If you begin to experience any gripping which is cramping you can have your partner slow the flow of the enema to alleviate this. Deep breathing and stomach massaging will also help with this. This cramping is normally associated with first time enemas so don't worry it will pass.
If during your enema you feel that you really need to evacuate your bowel, the best thing to do is relax and ask your partner to stop the flow. This need to evacuate will then pass and you can continue with your enema. You will feel your stomach expanding and this is normal so go with it. Once the enema has been administered try to hold it for a few minutes to heighten the erotic experience. When it's time to evacuate, leave the tube in place until you are ready and then remove it.
The last guideline I have for you is to be prepared, prepared for the feeling of elation as you evacuate your bowels and get ready for the next explosive erotic enema experience.
For the Giver of the Enema:
As the giver of the enema you are indeed in full control and to ensure that everything goes as planned these are the guidelines you need to follow.
Lubrication is the first thing you will need to focus on and this in itself can be an extremely pleasurable experience for both you and your partner. Your partner's ass needs to be well lubricated in order for the enema nozzle to slide into place and using your fingers for this will give the most pleasurable results. If you are using a role play scenario such as a nurse patient scene you may want to use rubber gloves for extra excitement. Remember the anus is designed to expel and not to receive so be patient. A little pressure using the tip of your finger for a couple of seconds will allow you to enter. You should apply the lubricant liberally using an in and out motion and this is also very likely to highly arouse your partner so be forewarned.
Inserting the enema nozzle will use the same technique as that of lubricating the anus. Next you will need to hand up the enema bag which should be 1 to 2 feet above your partner's ass. If you hang the enema bag higher than this more pressure will be produced.
You should open the enema clamp slowly and being administering the enema solution. Be prepared to stop, it can take anywhere up to 15 minutes to complete the enema. If you partner complains of cramping you will need to stop the flow until they are relaxed again. Massaging your partners stomach can help with this.
When it's time to evacuate you will probably need to hold the bag until they are ready. When doing this try not to raise the bag too high as this will increase the pressure your partner is already feeling.
The most important thing to remember when giving an enema is to respect your partner's wishes. Do not try to force more enema solution than will fit and most of all enjoy the experience.